My best friend was someone I met in the second grade. He was a pretty cool guy though a little on the introverted side. What probably drew me to him was that I being new to the school seemed attracted to the least intimidating person. He was just that and as I got to know him more than others I discovered something amazing about his personality. I figured the reason he was so withdrawn and different was that he was pretty mature for a nine year old. It was a little hard being his friend though. We were kids and in our immaturity we often demanded or had to make unreasonable demands of ourselves. Clearly, my other friends thought I was crazy for spending so much time with him and told me to either choose them or him.
I did not like this and I chose to do neither. I became less friendly with him but did not get completely gung ho with my others friends. In a way I was kinda trying to send them a message. The eventually realized I was serious and just let it drop. My friend did teach me some things that are important to me till date. Most important amongst them is to always try to be happy. Being positive is very important even and especially when everything seems to be going against you. He also taught me to take inspiration from others. The best example of this is how I always try to read about people and their achievements. I realize that if others can so can I.
I hope you are still friends with him. He seems like a good guy and taught you a lot.
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